you can try this :

https://github.com/sunnyfulin/TankWar.git

a little game, almost the same with yours. not finished yet.

use keys: w , s , a , d to move the tank and mouse to control the turrent direction, and mouse's left button click to fire a bullet.
mouse's right button pressed for locking the turrent direction.

You can add a widget to the scene using QGraphicsProxyWidget *QGraphicsScene::addWidget(QWidget *widget, Qt::WindowFlags wFlags = Qt::WindowFlags()).

Thanks that did exactly what I needed.

First of all while(1) in a UI thread is a very bad idea. This effectively freezes your ui.
A quick fix is to add qApp->processEvents(); at the end of the loop, but that's really just a band-aid.

Instead of the loop I would suggest to start a timer at reasonable interval (not shorter than an average monitor can actually display). You wouldn't need the processEvents hack with that.
Another thing is that you're loading an image, setting painter hints and recreating two pixmaps and a painter every step of the animation. That's terribly inefficient. Take them all out of the loop and just redo the painting, not the whole shabang.