If you still need a solution, download "the phonon vlc dlls":http://people.videolan.org/~jb/phonon/phonon-vlc-4.5-0.4.1-sdk.7z.
It's built with mingw, so if your application is building in Visual Studio it won't work for you.
Extract the bin folder to your application folder and remove the ds9 dll in the phonon_backend folder.
According to jb (the guy who built it), it is that simple.
Hope this helps!