ListView infinite list on adding/removing data from top/bottom

[kernel panic]

Hi
I'm trying to implement an infinite feed line in ListView

i keep active part of a chat in list by beginInsertRows/beginRemoveRows and adding/removing data from source, and it almost works - except it sticks to the bottom - if I scroll too fast

(when I scroll slowly - new data arrives and the scroll moves near the center and that's totally as expected, this way it's truly can be infinite)

If it's stuck at the bottom - even when new data is added, it stays at the bottom (which leaves no space for next try)

When I scroll to top - no problems and it works beautifully as expected
I am using:

verticalLayoutDirection: ListView.BottomToTop

fine

fine

stuck and it's staying there even when new data keep going

Also i tried to handle this problem in: onRowsInserted
and did:

messagesList.positionViewAtIndex(last, ListView.Visible)

But even if it partially can solve the problem - it appears as flickering and is weird visually

Is there any way how to keep Discord like behavior on ListVIew?

i leave full video in discord

I found a similar problem but it seems dead now

Update: i found a temporary solution - just to keep some space and not drop completely to the bottom
But still look for a better way

Update: it's all wrong
Decided to move on Flutter