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One data point about Apple's preference: Safari's Bookmarks menu uses a "globe" icon for pages that lack their own icon, and that monochrome globe icon does switch between light and dark when selected.
I was always searching at the wrong place.
The blue hue wasn't a problem of the style, it was a problem of the icon. Here is the solution:
for all icons
add this